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What Is, And Why Use Personalized Goal Setting Services? 

Are You Bored Or Feeling The Need To Change Something?

Many people periodically struggle with feelings of stagnation in one or more areas of their lives.  This is a normal occurrence, and something to be cherished and heeded.  If you are having these feelings, in my opinion, it means that you are a thoughtful, intelligent, bright, healthy person who does not want to settle for the status quo.  It is also an excellent sign that you are willing to be honest with yourself, openly evaluate your current situation, and explore ways in which you might make a positive change. 

It may be helpful to try to identify in which area(s) of your life the feelings of stagnation are coming from.  Maybe these feelings of stagnation are in these areas:

·        Relationships (romantic, family, friends, etc…)

·        Career (advancement, wage, begin a new career, etc…)

·        Fitness

·        Nutrition

·        Health

·        Education (getting that degree you always wanted, if you should get specialized training or education for purely personal reasons, etc…)

 

These feelings of stagnation are your mind’s way of letting you know that you need to take action!  People seem to react in different ways to their mind’s promptings in this area.  Some choose to try to ignore these feelings, others choose to acknowledge these feelings but not act.  Still others have a strong desire to act upon these uncomfortable feelings of stagnation, but may not know the specifics of beginning the process of making positive changes in their lives.

 

Are You Overwhelmed With The Amount Of Goal Setting Information

And Services On The Market?

There are a lot of programs and people selling goal setting information on the market today!  You can find excellent programs for any specific thing, in just about any information or advertising media.  Many of them have celebrities with clever slogans selling their own products, guides, books, and other things to help the interested person achieve their particular goal or goals.  That is why this is such a great country!  The information is certainly out there and available, usually for a price.  I believe there is excellent and appropriate information out there, as well as information that may be sub-standard.  That is where difficulty comes in.  Just how does one judge the information prior to purchasing it?  There is always a risk involved in buying information without trying it.  The information may just be wrong, poorly presented, not what you were looking for, or simply too expensive.  Some ways to evaluate a program you might decide to use are:

  • Statistics.  Information that accurately portrays the effectiveness of a particular product.  The only difficulty with statistics is that statistical analysis experts can manipulate data in a sophisticated way to show what they want the data to show. 
  • Word of mouth.  A person who has actually used a particular program and can vouch for its effectiveness is enormously helpful.  However, one must be aware that goal setting is a highly personal undertaking and since all people are unique and not robots, no two people respond to these types of stimulus in the same way.
  • Advertising.  Fortunately or unfortunately, our free market society uses this mode of communicating services heavily.  There are some very clever advertising methods with great commercials that have entertained us and we will remember for our entire lives.  Remember the little old lady, asking “Where’s the beef?”  Unfortunately, many advertising campaigns are not geared toward providing in-depth information about a product; they are geared toward grabbing a potential customer’s attention and pointing them to the product or services.  Therefore, unless the advertising is informational in nature, I do not recommend that you make a decision to use a service based upon this alone.
  • Internet Websites.  I have come to rely heavily on the Internet for gathering information.  It is interesting that I am finding most websites offering a wealth of information, and the beauty of this system is that the interested party can decide to take in as much information as they desire during one or more visits to a particular website.  This seems optimal.  I have also appreciated that many websites offer a large volume of information so that the reader may come to “get a feel” for the program, or organization, or individual.  Much of the information is specifically designed to inform the potential customer of the services provided, and give them enough information so that the customer will ultimately buy their product.
  • Libraries and Bookstores.  A careful search through your favorite bookstore or library may be helpful in finding a reasonably priced goal setting program, system, or philosophy.  However, this is a rather lonely journey unless you find a book or materials that offer some type of contact with the author of the materials.  Oftentimes, Amazon.com has books listed with a ratings category.  This is where readers of the material who felt so motivated, offered commentary on their experience of reading the book, or materials.  However, this can be somewhat misleading since some people can absolutely love something, where another person has a strong reaction in the opposite way.  Ultimately, you must judge for yourself.
  • Using a free initial consult.  If a program offers a free initial consult for a prospective customer to inquire about the services or program, this is optimal.  The cost is your valuable time, but will save you money and aggravation in the long run.  The consult should ideally be with the person who authored the book, materials, or personally conducts the services.  If a customer is considering engaging the services of a personalized service, in my opinion, they should expect to speak directly with the author of the materials, or to a “certified” person in that program.  An initial consult with the author or person who conducts the personalized services is optimal because it allows the potential customer the opportunity to interact with this person to see if they might develop a positive connection with them.  Hopefully the potential customer will have read all of the information on the website(s) and made a list of topics and questions to ask during the consult so that they will use this free time as effectively and efficiently as possible.

 

Why You Might Consider Enlisting The Help Of A Person

Or Service For Setting Goals:

I have been interested in nutrition and exercise for many years.  I have always been amazed at the number of different “diets,” pills, powders, secret formulas, medical doctor designed diets, and everything else there is available in the United States for diet and exercise.  The weight loss industry in America is a multi-billion dollar business!  But, obesity remains a significant problem.  I have given much thought to this.  There are probably many more reasons than I care to try and list here to explain possible reasons for the obesity problem in our country.  However, it remains clear that some people can and do achieve their weight loss goals using a number of different systems.  Yet, other folks seem to have more of a struggle achieving their weight loss goals, no matter what program, diet, or system they use.

Another area where people may experience a struggle is attempting to find a suitable career or career path.  They may have difficulty staying with an educational path they have chosen, and decided to drop out.  They may even have trouble identifying a potential career path to even start moving toward something different.  They may feel stuck and not sure of where they should explore, yet they have a strong desire to do something different.

Still another area a person may struggle finding “success” is in their relationships.  Maybe they are having difficulty finding a mate, or maintaining a valued relationship. 

These hypothetical individuals may not have any identified emotional issues and not wish to enter into personal therapy with a mental health professional in a mental health setting; they may simply wish to establish clear goals for themselves in these areas in order to begin a positive move toward these goals that will be healthy, successful, and positive in their lives.  This is where the concept of personalized goal setting assistance can be of inestimable value. 

I have spoken to numerous people who have intimated to me that they do not want therapy; they just want someone to talk with that can provide them with helpful information, encouragement, feedback, and support in order to help them achieve their goals.  Sometimes this person cannot be a friend or relative.  It might be more helpful to speak to an impartial person.  However, many of these same people have also stated to me that they have a hard time trying to justify the significant cost that some goal setting assistance persons or services charge. 

 

Possible Ways In Which To Accomplish The Change Process or Set A Goal

·        Make a conscious decision to change

·        Choose a resource to help your process

·        Work with what you already have

·        Clarify your goals

·        Set your goals and go to work

·        Recognize achieved goals

 

Affordable Personal Encouragement Services

One size does not fit all.  It has been my experience and that of many other successful goal achievers, that one program or system does not work for everyone.  You are a unique and special person, with unique and special interests, gifts, and abilities.  Any goal setting program that you ultimately decide to use, whether or not is it my services, should allow you to take your uniqueness into significant consideration when clarifying and setting goals.  Affordable Personal Encouragement Services uses this individualized focus as a cornerstone of its philosophy.

Affordable Personal Encouragement Services is committed to providing superior services at the lowest possible prices.  For personal meetings that can be conducted either over the Internet using a live online chat feature, or via the telephone (toll-free), a customer can have a choice of meeting times at affordable prices.

I offer free initial consults and welcome thoughtful questions as to what this business is all about, and will help you decide if my services will be able to meet your needs.  I also guarantee that if you decide to choose a goal that I do not feel comfortable helping you with, I will state so at the earliest possible time and save both you and me a lot of time and effort that both of us could use more productively in other endeavors. 

In closing, I hope that this article was helpful to you in more than one way.  I hope that it helped you organize your thoughts about choosing a goal setting assistance service, or getting goal setting information.  I hope it helped you receive the idea that in order to make a positive change in your life, you need to make specific, achievable goals that will lead you in the direction you wish to be headed.  I trust this article encouraged you to seek out positive resources to assist you in your goal setting/achieving journey, and stressed how important it can be in your journey to have the positive encouragement of a live human being to assist you periodically along the way.

Whatever good thing you choose to do in life, I wish you peace, success, joy, and happiness.